Vidya SasidharanTwin estrangementI was born alongside another. Well, underneath someone if we are being technical. I have a fraternal twin sister and this has been a gift…3 min read·Jul 22, 2022----
Vidya SasidharanWhat do you see when you look at me?My smile? The way I move? Maybe the way I appear. Recently I’ve become self conscious again; I notice myself stopping when I get too…2 min read·Jun 29, 2020----
Vidya SasidharanQuestions I’m asking myself these daysWhy did I pick him? Does he remind me of the way I was loved by one / both of my parents? Have I just unknowingly repeated the scene of…1 min read·Jun 25, 2020----
Vidya Sasidharan“In To Me You See” — The aftermath of narcissistic injuryExcerpts from different articles that have stood out to me in one way or another.2 min read·Jun 25, 2020----
Vidya SasidharanMusings and self-reflectionI chanced upon a friend’s post; I don’t know its source, but I do like it, and so I shall keep it on my medium platform for future…2 min read·Jun 24, 2020----
Vidya SasidharanDiscomfort and other ‘self sabotaging’ behavioursSometimes, more often than not, I feel that I drive people away. Those friends, people that I love, I end up doing something that makes…4 min read·Jun 13, 2020----
Vidya SasidharanRejectionI’m learning more and more each day to come to terms with this.2 min read·Jun 11, 2020----
Vidya SasidharanSelf-love and the paradox of loveI read this article just now on instagram; well, ok one can argue it wasn’t really much of an ‘article’ if it was on instagram.. but it…3 min read·Jun 10, 2020----
Vidya SasidharanIt’s been a shitty few daysWhat’s happening? The weather has shifted, gloomy dark grey clouds; threatening rain, a dull atmosphere, sombre mood. At the same time…4 min read·Jun 1, 2020----
Vidya SasidharanGetting over someoneIn general, getting over an old flame/lover/person, however you call it is always a hard thing to do. It takes up so much energy, and time…4 min read·Jun 1, 2020----